Why self advocsey has problems

are groups do not let the community be part of what we stand fore. This is a problem. One thing is that we want to be part of the community. but we don't let them come and be part of are groups. so this is a double standard. why cant we be more inviting. there are lots of people that would like to help us stand up for what is right. another problem that i see is when a self advocate says that we want more community the staff look at that as a threat to there job. the reason for that is when the community can start to help use we don't need the staff any more.